The Social Media Detox
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When it all gets too much,
a detox will never let you down.
It has become inevitable now that whilst scrolling through
Twitter or flicking through a magazine I see articles or posts about different
detoxes which are supposedly meant to make you feel like a whole new, pristine
you. From the simple ‘teatoxes’
to the not so appealing ‘colon cleansing’, clearing out your body seems to be
the latest health trend.
However, when it comes to detoxes what I needed far more than any
kind of body detox was a social media detox as I’m well and truly addicted. My
phone is constantly in my hand and when it’s not it’s most likely because I’m
scrolling through Twitter on my laptop instead. My head feels like it’s on
constant over-drive and crowded with thoughts both momentous and trivial. Not
only do I have to stress about my ever-growing mountain of work, but I also can’t
help wondering what Kanye’s latest cryptic tweet means or whether my selfie is
Instagram-worthy. In short, my head is full of nonsense and I need to sort it
out.
Day 1: I’ve already
failed. Just as many of you would wake up and check the news or make a coffee,
my morning ritual is to wake up and check Instagram or Twitter for the latest
gossip or daily fashion inspiration and that is exactly what I subconsciously
did this morning. I’m like a vampire who feeds on social media. At least I
can’t go downhill from here.
Day 2: All my social
media apps have been deleted. Twitter, Facebook, Snapchat and Instagram are now
non-existent on my phone and I feel much better not having my notifications
coming through taunting me and willing me to open them. My introvert side also
secretly loves not being able to check up on what everyone’s up to. Despite
loving my own company, seeing people out being sociable and not joining in with
them always results in me having a fear of missing out, so being able to relax
without these worries tonight was extremely gratifying.
Day 3: Today was a
struggle. Even doing things which seemed unrelated to social media such as
watching Broadchurch made me yearn for typing #broadchurch into Twitter to read
everyone’s opinions on the latest episode and join in with the conversation.
However, this also made me realise that whilst too much social media isn’t great
for the mind, body and soul, it’s a brilliant way for people from all over the
world to interact and come together, even if it’s over something as trivial as
a TV programme. Not being able to have that interaction over the past few days
has made me appreciate having access to that platform much more.
Day 4: Today I
realised social media has a much bigger influence on my life than I let myself
believe. Not only is it a brilliant device for procrastination and filling my
mind with superfluous information, but it also made me far more competitive and
not in a constructive ‘I want to work hard and achieve my goals’ kind of way.
Having a constant stream of beautiful girls popping up on my timeline, whilst
inspiring, also takes quite a toll on my confidence and makes me extremely
conscious about the amount of likes and followers I have which isn’t a healthy
obsession. Consequently, not having to worry about my follower count has taken
a weight off my shoulders.
Day 5: Whilst I’ll
admit it’s slightly frustrating not being able to fill the time in my day with
constant social media checks, my head is already feeling much clearer for it. My
Mount Everest of a work pile has also decreased rapidly so I think it’s fair to
say this detox is slowly but surely working.
Day 6: The weekend
= the biggest challenge yet. The willpower it took not to upload pictures
of last night’s outfit and give my Snapchat friends a minute by minute preview
of my evening was through the roof. Yet I’m incredibly proud to say that I succeeded
against all odds. Not only has this proven to me that maybe I have more control
over my social media use than I previously realised, but it’s also fabulous
being able to wake up without having to go through my drunken Snapchat story
and cringe, delete and repeat.
Day 7: I won’t lie, I’m
a little thrilled that today is my last detox day. Nonetheless, it was exactly
what I needed and I’d highly recommend to all the Instagram-loving, Facebook-addicted
crowd (i.e. the former me). Although I’m not going to totally eradicate social
media out of my life, I will be largely cutting down on how often I use it and
how much I let it affect me and my daily life so the impact it has will be only
positive.
Planning Your Social Media
Detox:
- Delete all your social media apps on day one to prevent any urges to have a quick scroll through.
- Set yourself up with plenty of distractions e.g. buy a good book or start that growing pile of work.
- Let your friends and family know what you’re doing and expect them to think you’re mad but get on with it anyway.
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